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| CJ 2009 |
Five years ago this October we meet our neighbors Laurie and Andrew, and Laurie's 13 year old niece Ciera Jolien (CJ). She immediately became a part of our lives. She came to visit often, and we loved having her come over. I taught her how to cook, make Kool-aid, and even how to do her math, and I enjoyed every minute of it. She started calling Josh and I mom and dad, and at first I asked her not to because I didn't want to step on her own parents toes. However, with time it was very enduring and made us realize the impact we had on her life (and she had on ours). As we moved away and she moved in with other family members, we spent less time together, but she was always welcome in our home, and we would get excited when she called to ask about a math problem, or how to fill out her college application. How she called Bo her little sister, and was so excited to meet her, and want us to be apart of her graduation ceremony. She was an amazing young woman that had a lot to look forward to.
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| CJ and Bo |
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| Final piece |
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| Final piece |
So when I got the phone call from her aunt Laurie that she was on life support and we needed to come say our final good-byes I was in shock, and couldn't wait to go home and tell Josh. We got in our car and went to the hospital in hopes that the doctors would change their diagnosis, and tell us she was going to be fine. When we walked into her room we knew, there were no words said, but we knew that we really had to say good-bye to a young woman that changed our lives for the better. CJ had a heart condition since the day she was born, and more recently a blood platelet condition that caused her a lot of pain. Friday night CJ had a seizure that cause blood and swelling in her brain, the doctors tried to fix it with surgery, but it was to late the damage had been done, there was nothing more they could do for her. They took her off life support and she passed away Saturday evening. All I wanted to do was hug our baby girl, and not let her go.
CJ we miss you so much you touched many peoples lives, and many people that love you very much.
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| Heart Strong for CJ |
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It
is a great honor in our house to put the final piece of the puzzle in.
I am sad to think we will never see her final picture of her puzzle
that she was still left to complete. You will always be a part of our lives puzzle. LOVE YOU CJ!
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